My “Man of the Year”

Posted by admin on Dec 29th, 2006

Joseph Trojack

(This picture is not him, but it could be, no it’s me - well, not really, it’s Ben somebody - but Joe kinda looks like this - and I should too.)

Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati was hailed from the pulpit has an example to others while he was still alive, by the Bishop of Turino no less - so I can praise a very good Catholic young man I know.

Mr. Trojack reminds me very much of Pier Giorgio. He is such an extraordinary soul. Very devout and conscientious without scrupulosity - well, not too much, he’s still young.

He comes from an excellent Catholic family, his parents are the attorney John Trojack and his wife Mary Jo. The affection of his parents and siblings as well as the example of his virtuous parents and the excellent training they provided the children are exemplified in Joe, their only son.

Joe worked for me for a short time a couple of years ago. He always came to work dressed in a tie and well pressed shirts and dress pants - every day. He was industrious and pleasant to work with. He had a work ethic unlike any other young man I knew. And he was so much fun to work with. (When he left to continue his studies, I was in a funk for weeks. He was my joy.)

Very Catholic, he prefers the traditional Mass, as well as devotion. He is extremely well educated and bright, although never, ever affected by his intelligence or education. (Despite the fact he has always been the head of his class, he maintained he had to work very hard for it.) He is a genuinely humble man.

He has been Catholic educated in the best schools while remaining a typical Catholic youth - or what a Catholic youth ought to be. He liked “dance/trance” music and crazy humor - which endeared him to me. In addition, he could quote Shakespeare, even the most obscure lines, without any difficulty, appropriate to our conversation. (Pier Giorgio could do that with Dante.) Nevertheless, he retained a rather serious and intense approach to life, without a trace of morbidity or puritanical somberness. (He always retains a “puppy’s” joie de vie - which is infectious.)

What I can surmise of his spirituality is that he has a keen sense of justice, combined with a rather tender mercy. Yet what characterizes him the most is his capacity to love, he is graced with a wonderful charity and respect for individuals,no matter their state in life, and the primary purpose of pleasing God alone.

After great discernment, sometimes agonizing, (he wondered about priesthood) he married a lovely young woman of equal intelligence and piety, Mary Shea, an accomplished artist in her own right. Mary is a lovely soul - also in her own right. When I refer to ideals of courtship and married love, these two often are my inspiration.

Mr. Trojack will be finishing his studies for his law degree at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minnesota this year. It’s tough to be married and working on a law degree. (He has other degree(s) but I never asked what they were, and he never told me.)

He is a man to watch, I believe great things await him.

He is my “Man of the Year” - I am honored to call him friend - as well as to pretend he’s my son - but he is really John’s son - the apple just doesn’t fall far from the tree. Joe would never be the man he is without such an affectionate, loving and honorable father - and good Italian mom.

Now here is a guy…

Posted by admin on Dec 29th, 2006

With a fresh perspective on things.

On Catholic blogs and the coming indult:

“What is coming clear, now, is that a parting of the ways is coming: I predict the pope’s expected Motu Propriu will expose a fault-line — between those who genuinely want to pursue the “reform of the reform,” and those who really couldn’t care less about that, but rather are focused on the restoration of the old rite. Many of these self-styled “traditionalists” are being very plain: entirely scrap the Rite of Vatican II they derisively call Novus Ordo, a title they claim the Church herself gives the Mass (true in the barest technical sense: Paul VI used the expression, in a speech, once). A number of these folks, with little prodding, will proceed to tell you how heretical and evil the current rite of Mass is. And they don’t stop there.” Bonfire of the Vanities

Read Fr. Martin Fox on the Old and New Mass…he has some very good insights.

I drive, and don’t mind driving to a Church where liturgy is celebrated well. I’m still attending St. Agnes. Good solid young priests are there, just like Fr. Fox. I so hate the constant arguing about rites however. No, I do not like the abuses, and I’ve experienced many, I never have liked them, why do you think I hate contemporary liturgical music? - yet the Mass of Paul VI is the prayer of the Church, it is legitimate, valid, holy and efficacious and does indeed give glory to God. To claim otherwise is a source of scandal that has kept not a few from benefiting from the grace that flows from what has been condemned by some as the Novus Ordo Church.

There are a few traditionalists who like to say they are indeed more Catholic than the Pope on the basis of the rite they celebrate - perhaps, and that is a very slim perhaps - what they fail to realize however, is no one can be more holy, nor more Catholic than the Church, of which, Benedict XVI is the head, the Vicar of Christ.

Let the Motu come when it will - the Church remains One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic - with or without it.

Becket

Posted by admin on Dec 29th, 2006

I read once where he would never have been a saint if he hadn’t been martyred. Which reminds me of of Amy Welborn’s comment on her home page, “She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.” (This quote is what endeared Amy to me - one has to love such humility.)
I think Becket was Richard Burton’s best role. St. Thomas was very worldly, athletic, finely educated, and possessed exquisite taste. Amidst all the temptations of court it is said he remained virtuous and chaste. Always a just man, even though the king’s best friend.
He died opposing the State, murdered in his Cathedral at vespers. After his death his piety and asceticism were soon found out, he had worn a hairshirt, and privately lived a penitential life with minimal comforts. Actually, I think he would have been a saint regardless of the martyrdom.
Henry VIII dismantled his shrine and his relics were lost, undergoing a posthumous martyrdom of sorts at the hands of another king I’d say.
Catholic Online has a good biography on the saint while Fr. Nicholas has an interesting post on the feastday as observed in the UK.
St. Thomas Becket brings to mind a similar martyr - I wonder if Archbishop Oscar Romero will ever be canonized? He does have the title, “Servant of God”.

Is a meme an interview?

Posted by admin on Dec 29th, 2006

Catholic Devotions Meme (These things go around like a cold.)

1. Favorite devotion or prayer to Jesus?

Frequent spiritual communions throughout the day and uniting myself and all I do to His silent loving action in the Eucharist. The Divine Mercy chaplet and the prayers of the chaplet - it brings one into immediate union with the holy sacrifice of the Mass being celebrated throughout the world.

2. Favorite Marian devotion or prayer?

The Little Office of the BVM - the pre-Vatican II version, and of course the rosary, as many as I can pray each day.

3. Do you wear a scapular or medal?

Yes. The brown scapular and medal - the medal was for times I could once go shirtless - too fat now. Also a Miraculous medal and a St. Joseph medal.

4. Do you have holy water in your home?

Yes. But not in a font - it evaporates too quickly. I bless myself and the cats frequently with it.

5. Do you ‘offer up’ your sufferings?

Of course - the morning offering and acts of union with the Eucharistic Heart of Jesus takes care of that. However, I prefer to thank Our Lord for the sufferings I may experience. A holy Carmelite, Mother Mary Electa of Christ said, “Prayer is good, suffering is better.” I would add, “Gratitude in both is best.”

6. Do you observe First Fridays and First Saturdays?

I have done so several times over - there are specific requirements you know, 9 and 5 in a row, respectively. Having done that, I keep them more freely now.

7. Do you go to Eucharistic Adoration? How frequently?

Yes. Often. Not always in a specified Eucharistic chapel however. I never mind praying before a closed tabernacle. In addition, I neither count the visits, nor do I keep track of how long I’m there.

8. Are you a Saturday evening Mass person or Sunday morning Mass person?

Earliest and quietest Mass possible on Sunday morning.

9. Do you say prayers at mealtime?

Yes, even for snacks - but no one notices when I do - I don’t make a production out of it.

10. Favorite Saint(s)?

That’s a long list. Our Lady and St. Joseph and my guardian Angel and St. Michael are the first, and in that order. Otherwise, Therese and Francis. John and Teresa. Alberto Marvelli and Pier Giorgio Frassati. Benedict Joseph Labre and Joseph Moscati. John Macias and Martin and Rose of Lima. Pierina Morossini and Maria Goretti. Dominic Savio. Br. George and Conrad of New Melleray. Laura Vicuna and Charles Untz. Dorothy Day and Mother Grace of the Eucharist. Matt Talbot and Angela of Foligno. Bernardo of Quintivalle and Roch. Margaret of Cortonna and Catherine of Genoa. And two popes, John XXIII and John Paul I. These are just a few who immediately come to mind.

11. Can you recite the Apostles Creed by heart?

Of course - how can one be a Catholic otherwise?

12. Do you usually say short prayers (aspirations) during the course of the day?

Yes - but I mostly think and share my thoughts with Our Lord and Lady and St. Joseph all day long - And, I frequently say the act of contrition throughout the day for all the slips of my tongue and sins of pride.

13. When you pass by an automobile accident or other serious mishap, do you say a quick prayer for the folks involved?

Yes indeed - the school sisters taught us that. I also pray for people whose cars I notice abandoned on the freeway from the previous night, certain they may have been arrested for a DUI. And I pray for anyone having car problems. I like to pray for pedestrians I see as well - just in case no one prays for them. I designate all of these with a discreet sign of the cross using my forefinger as I pass by. And of course, I pray for ambulances, fire trucks, and police cars - the public servants in them, whenever I see or hear them.

14. (This should be here.) Do you tip your hat or make the sign of the cross when you pass a Catholic Church out of reverence for the Blessed Sacrament?

Without fail - usually by tracing the sign of the cross with my thumb over my forehead with a silent “O Sacrament most holy…”

So - whoever wants to do this meme, go ahead - it’s a good examine in a way. When younger and seeking my vocation, I often asked contemplative monks and nuns how they prayed. A meme is kind of like that, we can learn from others when we share some of our practices with one another.

President Ford

Posted by admin on Dec 29th, 2006

The country begins it’s mourning period for Gerald Ford, the “accidental” President. He never aspired to be president, while he seemed to be rather charmingly accident prone, as Chevy Chase brilliantly mimicked - much to the delight of Jerry and Betty.
Most enemies of the Nixon administration never forgave President Ford for pardoning his predecessor. I thought it gallant of him to do so. Mercy is always peace-giving and healing, and our country sorely needed that at the time. Much as we do today.
The Fords were a rather ordinary family in many respects. One has to admire how they supported one another in crises. Betty’s breast cancer, her chemical dependency struggles.
It’s sad to think that Mrs. Ford is pro-abortion in view of all her troubles. Yet the majority of the elite do embrace such errors.
One does not have to agree with another’s politics to like the person, perhaps it is all the more reason to pray for them.
I just liked the guy. May he rest in peace.
Photo courtesy of the Ford Library and Museum.

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