Summer decency - an oxymoron?

Posted by Terry Nelson on Jun 5th, 2007

 

Trends 

Visiting blogs this evening I came across this photo of Paris Hilton, on her way to jail I suppose.  Salve Regina posted it, and I had to comment that Paris actually looks decent in the photo.  (Why does she have to dress so slutty otherwise?)  At  Tea At Trianon, Elena did a piece on the return of decency in the tastes of young girls, it was taken from the Washington Post.  I thought, “Wow!  Really?”

Fashions that offend God.

Bl. Jacinta of Fatima received many visits from Our Lady after the public apparitions at Fatima.  In one instance Our Lady explained to her:

“the sins which bring most souls to hell are the sins of the flesh.  Certain fashions are going to be introduced which will offend Our Lord very much… the Church has no fashions; Our Lord is always the same…”

In 1917 women wouldn’t even think of wearing pants, much less shorts and spaghetti strap tops.  I think Our Lady was rather “fashion forward” in what she said, knowing how women’s fashions (and men’s - remember Speedos from the ’80’s, and the low, pube revealng jeans today) would devolve to the hooker look it now is.

Modesty returning? 

Many people who red me know I once worked in fashion - many years ago now, so I know a little bit about it.  I got in trouble last year for criticizing a local start-up company, Up Stream Girl, dedicated to promoting modest affordable fashions for young girls and women.  I later changed my mind when I found out their sincerity, that they were new at the business, and were still working out the details.  Their fall presentation was so much better.  (I pretty much expected them to be Calvin Klein - I later apologized.)

It is good news however to read that young girls think run of the mill “summer fashions” are too indecent.  Although, I doubt one can consider normal summer-time apparel as fashion.  T-shirts and shorts, with flip-flops - not my idea of fashion.

Here are a couple of quotes from the article:

“Shorts are too short,” complained 13-year-old Jessica Marino.

“Micro shorts,” offered Nicole Madden, 14.

The steamy days of Washington summer may be upon us, but these girls, all from Burke, were definitely not getting skimpy. For a generation bombarded with news of pantyless celebrities, most of the girls we interviewed were surprisingly modest.

“I try to stay with styles that look good. I try to go for classic styles,” said Kate Bolton, 17. “My mom has really slammed that into my head.”  (Now she has a smart mom!)  - Washington Post

It is an interesting article, which includes a brief analysis on the sexualization of our culture, and kids reaction against it.

I hope so. 

6 Responses

  1. marie Says:

    The thing I object to strongly and have stated on our blog is the fact that it is hard to get clothes now that are modest.

    I am NOT a ‘bright young thing’ anymore, yet when I went to buy some sweats to wear while excercising ALL that was available were HIPSTERS! And I do mean they were LOW hipsters. I am sorry but the plumbers look is NOT a good sight whatever size you are or your age.

    I ended up coming home with NO sweats I made do with last winters clothes. It is annoying to say the least that many clothes are made for a younger generation…What about those over 40?

    Good post Terry:)

    God bless you

    Marie

  2. Terry Nelson Says:

    Thanks Marie. Maybe a reader will have a suggestion on where to find clothes. Over 40 people like us have a hard time. Men’s clothes are fitted and low waisted now too.

  3. Anon Says:

    I’m over 40, and got some nice Champion exercise pants at Target. They are modest enough that I can wear them on my walk to daily Mass this summer. But they’re not “sweats.” Haven’t seen old-fashioned baggy sweats in a women’s department for some time.

  4. Cathy_of_Alex Says:

    The real truth is Ms. Hilton did not want to look slutty before entering prison lest she attract a new friend (not Nicole)-know what I’m sayin?

    Good post. I really pray that more women will dress modestly but you knew I was all about that anyway.

  5. nab Says:

    The Hiltons have a crisis PR team and use it for their personal image–including children.
    Remember after the whole video thing, when she showed up at a major event in a knee-length virginal white dress looking her age? My friend’s PR firm orchaestrated that (my friend’s boss was the manager of that particular account).

  6. Jeron Says:

    Love the glasses!

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