Coming out…
of Sodom.
I saw this story on Clinging to the Barque of Peter, about a young man being helped out of the homosexual lifestyle by Archbishop Burke while Burke was the ordinary of the diocese of LaCrosse, Wisconsin.
“As best as I can determine, my same-sex attraction began in reaction to my father, who was a violent alcoholic. He often drank, came home to throw things around the house and abuse my mother in addition to threatening me and my brother. I thought he hated us. Consequently, I didn’t want to be anything like him.
In my sorrow, I started looking for the love of my father in thearms of other men. At age 17, a predator took advantage of me under the teacher/pupil dynamic and I became completely mixed up about human sexuality. Over the years, one thing led to another until I moved in with a man more than 20 years my senior….
From 1990 to 1994, I went to Mass off and on. In 1995, I told my “partner” that I couldn’t go anymore because I was very angry with the Church. I boxed up all my crucifixes and Bibles and dropped them off at the office of the bishop of La Crosse, Wisconsin with a letter renouncing the Catholic faith.
To my surprise, Bishop Raymond Burke replied with a kind letter expressing his sadness. He wrote that he would respect my decision and notify the parish where I had been baptized. Ever so gently, Bishop Burke said that he would pray for me and look forward to the time when I would reconcile with the Church….
As someone who suffered in the state of mortal sin for many years, I assure you that there is no happiness outside of the moral order. The only authentic response to the challenge of same-sex attraction and sin is the truth in the Catechism of the Catholic Church.” - Coming Out of Sodom - By Eric Hess
I have a friend whose story is quite similar, at least in how he became involved with the homosexual subculture. He also left “Sodom” - although he attributes his conversion to John Paul II. He always claims it occurred as the newly elected pope appeared on the balcony of St. Peter’s for the first time.
April 8th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
Praise God!
April 8th, 2008 at 9:53 pm
Terry:
Homosexual tendencies are imprinted on the psyche at a critical learning period in a child’s life–how difficult it must be to live a chaste life with such a fundamental deviation. But I truly believe, “there is no happiness outside of the moral order.” I’m sure Hess has his very difficult moments, but true happiness only comes form total conformity to Jesus.
April 9th, 2008 at 8:53 pm
Dear Tara,
The tendencies may be imprinted, but they are not impossible to overcome later.
April 9th, 2008 at 9:08 pm
broajk:
Agreed! also, in our own strength it may be impossible, but with God’s strength it is not impossible.